Decisions and choices are such tests of character . Over the years I most certainly have always been baffled as to how people come up with the conclusions and the decisions they do . It’s true what they say that you shouldn’t mock a pain or situation you haven’t had first hand experience of. The hardest decisions to make very often involve you having to be selfish and I must say that’s not something that comes easily for me . I have had to realise that being selfish isn’t necessarily a bad thing , it isn’t actually what it is made out to be . Being selfish is seemingly viewed from one dimension , and I would say ‘selfish ‘ is simply a harsh way of saying one must align their priorities . What are my priorities ? Well , that’s what I had a tough time having to think…